Emotional damage

    According to the theory of relativity, this week's time flew as light, perhaps. Most courses hand out midterm exams and took a while to correct answers, thus didn't have full-time lectures. While at the same time, I was still chased by midterm reports. Back and forth, extra time from regular courses was stuffed with papers and reports. Looking back, already on Sunday night.

  Well, it is not the point. This week's topic is emo. A little bit of bet, I know, to bet that a heartbroken puppy won't deteriorate by this. Anyway, it is just my weekly journal, just put it in my own words. 

  Initially, this Friday night would have a snack with Chu and Yi. Due to some incidents (first emo point, check#), it was suspended until Saturday night. Yi explained to us how he almost came into battle with his teammate, and why he didn't sleep last whole night. On Saturday afternoon, Yi texted me that Mr.Certificate was going to come to Gongguan with him. Therefore, after about one and a half months, I met with Mr.Certivicate again. Honestly speaking, he was really in a bad condition. He said he was "manic", well, undeniable. Some of his actions really fit my stereotype of mental illness. I don't know whether it is because I already know he had been in depression, or his behavior was really harsh to trigger anger. Stay with this kind of person, it is easy to be infected by the atmosphere. At least in my observation of that dinner with him, all of us became a bit irritable reacting.

  To that degree, I confirmed the status I told a few weeks ago: Yes, even as a friend, I won't like to deal with his own problems. We live in a society relatively tolerable to patients. And the character of friends would add sorts of obligation to help. We sympathize with him, tolerate the prick of the hedgehog as well as try to give him a hand.

   But there is a limitation. Humans are emotional beings, there is a limitation to receiving damage from others. He doesn't want to have a consultation with a man he doesn't know, that's fine. However, not a simple "Sorry I'm in a bad mood" then one can do whatever he wants and anticipate his acquaintances would accept all of the garbage. Maybe Yi is willing to spend 4 hours and sacrifices his sleep, but this kind of hurting other would be a waste, wasting his own friendship capital. I am not sure if he annoying all near people, would the situation go worst or what, I have no idea, so I asked CHAT-GDP: "It's important to acknowledge that you are not a mental health professional and that your friend may need more specialized help than you can provide. You could also talk about the importance of seeking professional help and the different resources available to those who are struggling with mental health issues." Well, now I know why Cai would say he couldn't spend more on him.

  Put it aside, after our little puppy went to Royan, we had a casual night, appreciated.